My husband told me I should post this because he finds my lists and planning funny. I’ve had a summer with a lot of time to think (it has it’s good and bad). Making lists and planning help me relax and wrap my mind around some things. I realize that once the baby is born I’ll have to be super flexible and things probably will go the exact opposite as planned. It’s weird, but planning helps me be prepared for the opposite…if that makes sense.
Anyway, below are my lists of things we need to buy, our hospital bag packing list, photography idea lists, a brief discussion of my birth plan, and a book list. Any input is appreciated (i.e. things I need/won’t need, opinions, etc.) if you feel like it. 🙂
Sorry this is so long, but you have the option not to read it and I won’t be offended. 🙂
items we need to buy before the baby is born:
If it doesn’t say where to buy then we’re getting it off our registry at Babies R Us. These items are seriously the essentials that I think we’ll need starting out that we need to buy. Otherwise, everything else we’ll save for as the baby grows (like high chair, crib, convertible car seat etc.).
Since we’ll be living with my parents for the first 5 or so months of this child’s life and the three of us sharing a room we’re trying to keep things to a minimum.
- Clothes (Jacob’s mom is doing some awesome garage sales for us!
- Breast pump (I’m just getting a manual one on our registry…I don’t plan to pump often)
- Nursing supplies
Nursing cover (I got one for $10 rather than $40 like on my registry)
- Bottles (small size)
- Infant car seat and winter cover
- Pack n Play and sheets
- Diapers, Wipes (amazon), ointment
- Swaddle blankets
- Diaper bag (etsy, thirty-one)
I’ve had a hard time finding a bag that I like because all of them at the stores seem large, and it’s not like we have to take the child to daycare, so I don’t need that big of a bag. I do plan to use it as my purse as well, so it needs to have some pockets. these are the two I’m thinking: this etsy diaper bag. I really like the style, size, outside pockets of this bag. Or I’m thinking this Thirty-one Retro Metro Bag. I like the price of this one better, and the fact that I know it will be sturdy. So we’ll see what our budget looks like.
- Monitor
- Boppy pillow
- Burp cloths (white pack of cloth diapers
- Travel sized shampoo, conditioner, body wash, toothpaste, new toothbrush
- Baby shampoo/lotion
- Travel diaper changing mat
- diaper caddy
To do before baby is born: I plan to put the baby’s things in a zip-lock bag and then pack all three of our clothes in one duffel bag.
- Pack hospital bag (my bag, baby things, Jake’s things)
My bag
- 2-3 change of clothes
- shampoo, body wash, razor, toothpaste, toothbrush
- phone and charger
- camera and charger
- laptop and charger
- ipod and charger
- Wallet w/insurance cards
- Birth plan (2 copies)
- Chap-stick
- Hairbrush, hair ties, bobby pins
- Flip flops (ones to possibly throw away)
- granola bars, gum
- makeup (just a few things)
- journal, bible
Jake’s bag
- Change of clothes
- Deodorant
- Toothbrush/paste (I’m getting us new toothbrushes and keeping them in the bag because i feel like it would be something we would forget and I can’t stand smelly breath).
- Phone charger
- Flip camera
Baby’s bag
- Coming home outfit
- A few diapers and wipes
- Receiving blanket
- Pack diaper bag
- Install car seat
Find a pediatrician
- Take labor (w/jake), and breastfeeding classes (We’ll be doing this “last-minute” once we get to Milwaukee. Our hospital has a weekend express class that hopefully we can sign up for)
- Buy items on list above.
- Wash all baby clothes and organize
- Finalize birth plan
Photography Ideas: I’m not really good at just taking pictures and I know I’ll be probably more forgetful in the moment. I know I’ll want some taken, so I’m giving this list to Jacob and my brother (since he has a nice camera and he can take pictures after labor).
During Labor (I kind of want to document the beginning to end, but I’m not sure what that will look like when I’m in labor, so if we don’t get pictures during that’s fine)
- Before leave home final belly picture
- Early labor look
- Near the end of labor
Post Labor
- First moments with baby (family pic if possible)
- Father and baby
- Mother and baby
- Baby being weighed/examined
- Family shots in hospital/at home
- Mother, father, and baby
- Grandparents and baby
- Uncles/aunts and baby
- Generation pictures
Misc. anytime
- Room # sign
- Hospital bands
- Name badge on bassinet
- Hospital room “panorama view”
Leaving the hospital
- Baby in coming home outfit
- Family pic walking out of hospital
- In the car
Birth Plan:
I do have a birth plan written up. I’m going to wait to see if I want to use it or how I should change it once I talk to my obgyn. It was a good process for me to go through because it got me thinking about some of my preferences/options and allowed me to do some reading on different procedures.
Basically, in a “perfect” labor and delivery scenario I want to have as natural a birth as possible. I really want to do it without medication/epidural and be able to be active in the labor. Then for baby, assuming everything is fine, some of my preferences are immediate skin-to-skin contact, wait for the cord to stop pulsing till it’s cut, etc. That’s the super abbreviated version and ultimately I want to do what will be the safest for the baby; so again, I’m preparing for things to go the opposite as my plan.
Books I’ve read:
- the complete guide to breastfeeding. This book has been very informative and I think it will be a good reference tool later.
- Shepherding a Child’s Heart
- Becoming Babywise